Past Relationship: Is there a possibility of friendship?

It’s hard to be friends after the break up. Not all the relationship has a possibility to be friends. Maybe when the bitterness or the pain had completely gone, it’s possible to be friends. But it takes time. It’s up to both of you.

Friendship often ends in love.  But love, in friendship. It’s difficult for most of the people! Yes, it’s true. Why? Simply because you don’t want to be friends, you want to be more than friends. You can’t accept the fact that you started and ends by just being friends. You want more than you give.

You can be friends but not necessarily that you share all your thoughts, all the feelings that you have for your ex-boyfriend/girlfriend. Just a simple hi or hello, a simple conversation from what is happening to both of you would be okay. That can be called a friendship. Having a good communication, with no anger, no bitterness or pain in your heart would be a nice sign of friendship.

Is there a happy ending?

Love doesn’t have a definition. You can feel it but you can’t really explain what it is, you can say you’re in love but you don’t know why you say this. You’re saying crazy thoughts and think as if; it’s the happiest and prettiest things ever in your life.  But in the end, is there a happy ending?

Sometimes after you’ve suffered, you suddenly say that “It’s better if we stay friends”. But in the first place, do you think about it. Do you also consider that it’s gonna happened. It’s hard to think about this but it’s even harder when you exactly experienced this.

Love begins with a simple conversation. Just like a new song. You want to hear and know what the meaning is. And after a while, you always want to hear this and try to memorize the lyrics. But after a long time, this song becomes a memory. Memories that full of experiences and what made you a better person.

Is there a happy ending? Definitely, the answer is YES. There is a happy ending in your life as long as you are contented in what you have and whom you are with. Happy ending is not all about love; it’s all about all the aspects of your life. Everyone deserves a happy ending, everyone expects happy ending.